Your social media habits, exercise routine, and even the way you walk may be sucking the joy out of your day, without you knowing it. Luckily, these behaviors can be changed. As compiled by Daily Mail and Health magazine, discover ways you’re sabotaging your good moods.
How we feel psychologically can have an effect on the way we walk, but the inverse is also true, finds a study published in the Journal of Behaviour Therapy and Experimental Psychiatry. Researchers found that when subjects were asked to walk with shoulders slouched, hunched over, and with minimum arm movements, they experienced worse moods than those who had more vigor in their steps. What’s more, participants who walked in the slouchy style thought of more negative things rather than positive. Talk about melancholy at every step.
You take a lot of pictures
Instagram queens, pay attention! Randomly snapping pictures, be it selfies or others may hamper how you remember those moments, according to a study published in Psychological Science. In the study, participants took a museum tour, observing objects and snapping shots of others as well as themselves. Afterward, they had a harder time remembering the moments they captured and it did stir some mental unrest. “The lens is a veil in front of your eyes and we don’t realize how much it affects the mental state,” says Diedra L. Clay, PsyD, chair and associate professor of the counseling and health psychology department at Bastyr University in Kenmore, Washington. Time to put the camera down and absorb imagery around you.
You let yourself get bullied
Bullying doesn’t end when you graduate from school. Approximately 54 million workers, or 35 percent of US employees, are targeted by a bully at some point in their careers, according to the Workplace Bullying Institute. More than 70 percent of people have witnessed a workplace bully and have been mentally traumatized, as a result, says Erin K. Leonard, Ph.D., a practicing psychotherapist and author of the book, Emotional Terrorism: Breaking the Chains of a Toxic Relationship. “Being attacked maliciously in the place of pride and self-esteem continuously can be devastating. It makes you emotionally volatile so that it is even difficult to get up and go work.” It’s important to stand up for yourself and not allow anyone to run you down.
You don’t exercise
If you actively work out three times a week, your risk of being depressed decreases by 19 percent, according to a new study published in JAMA Psychiatry. After following more than 11,000 people and recording depressive symptoms and levels of physical activity at regular intervals, University College London researchers found a correlation between physical activity and depression. People who were depressed were less likely to be active, while those who were active were less likely to be depressed. In fact, for every time they were active, depression risk decreased by six percent.
You take life too seriously
You trip on a rock in the sidewalk, and instead of shrugging it off, you cringe with embarrassment. If that sounds like you, it’s time to find some ways to laugh more. “There are many studies showing the benefits of laughter on our health and this includes mental health,” psychotherapist Leonard suggests. “Laughter is the fast medicine for anxiety and depression.” It’s miraculously healthy to seek out humor every day. Watch a funny movie, read an upbeat magazine, or spend time with friends who make you smile. You could even try volunteering with kids — they really do say the dandiest things.
You don’t actually talk to anyone
If you chiefly use texting, Facebook, and other social media to stay in touch with friends, you’re not having meaningful contact. “Facebook pages are entertainment,” Clay says. “These are not true conversations that allow us to understand people. Instead, it lessens our experiences and feelings.” Michael Mantell, Ph.D., a behavioral sciences coach based in San Diego, California, agrees. “Personal electronics, like smartphones, have also impacted concentration, demands for immediate gratification, and expectations that the press of a button can lead to instantaneous connection,” Mantell says. We’ve learned to have virtual connections and this impacts our ability and interest in sitting in the same room with someone and actually talking face-to-face, without feeling mentally troubled.
We’re all guilty of this: we take lunch at our desks, scroll through Twitter or browse the internet while watching TV, and text pretty much constantly. Research shows that although many people believe they’re being more productive by handling two or more things at the same time, that’s not actually the case — it just leaves the mind stressed and massively worn out. Tackling too much at once makes us oblivious to our surroundings, leaving us unable to communicate effectively. It’s time to put down the phone, turn off the television, and pay attention to what’s going on around you. Allowing your brain to process everything that is happening to you in real-time may be the best thing you can do for superior mental health.