Asking Kids About Their Day

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Parent involvement sets students up for academic and professional success. You should make it a habit to engage with your children and ask them about their school day. You can hone kids’ developmental skills and gain insight into what they’re learning. Young children’s language skills will show as they form complete sentences. You can have entertaining conversations and form closer bonds with your child. As a parent, you’ll also learn their honest feelings and thoughts about school.

Here’s a list of conversation starters and questions you can ask your kids about their school day:

  1. What was the best thing that happened at school today, and what was the worst?
  2. Did anything make you laugh?
  3. Who do you want to sit by in class, and why and who do you not want by you?
  4. What’s your favorite place in school?
  5. Have you heard anything weird today?
  6. If I talked to your teacher today, what would they tell me about you?
  7. Did you help anyone today, and what did you do?
  8. Give me something that you learned in school today. Not a question
  9. Tell me the one thing that made you the happiest in class.
  10. Were you bored at all today? Why?
  11. Who do you wish could leave your class, and why do you feel that way?
  12. Did you play with anyone during recess?
  13. What word did you hear the most today during school?
  14. Do you want to do anything else in school or learn something new?
  15. What don’t you want to do in school and what don’t you like?
  16. Who should you be nicer to when you’re in school?
  17. What did you do during recess?
  18. Who makes you laugh the most in class? What makes them so funny?
  19. Did you eat anything good for lunch?
  20. Who did you eat lunch with, and did you share?
  21. If you were the teacher of the class, what would you do?
  22. Does anyone in the school need a timeout?
  23. Do you want to switch seats in your classroom? Where do you want to sit and why?
  24. Tell me three different times you used your pencil today?
  25. What do you have to do for homework?
  26. How was the ride to and from school?
  27. Would you like to be a teacher when you grow up? Why or why not?
  28. Did anything make you upset today?
  29. What makes you excited about tomorrow?
  30. Have any of your classmates misbehaved today? What did they do wrong?
  31. Has anything upset you or made you sad today?
  32. Is anyone in the school sick?
  33. Has your teacher planned anything exciting for this week?
  34. What do you want to do tomorrow?
  35. Did anything in school make you mad today?

You can get more creative and specific each day. Come up with things you want to know that will let you have a fun interaction with your child. You’ll be able to learn more about your kids. You can find out what they love and foster that passion. You also get to gauge your children’s feelings by asking them questions casually.

By paying attention and listening carefully, you may notice certain challenges your child faces. If kids dislike something, you can identify potential trouble spots or learning difficulties like dyslexia. Partner with the teacher if you pick up on anything during your conversations that cause concern. You can ask if any bullying occurs in the classroom or any threats. Parent involvement helps you bond with your child and encourages them to thrive. Exploring Feelings helps kids get more in tune with their emotions and thoughts. A renowned expert in early education, Susan B. Neuman, covers many areas. Children get to learn themselves, fears, and surroundings. The resource guide also gives parents fresh approaches to communicating with their kids.